To Love

On Wednesday at CYAN we had an interesting speaker - Rev Matthew Lo. He spoke on 1 Cor 13, the passage which is oft quoted during weddings...

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." (1 Cor 13: 4 - 8)

It is a verse I have hanging in my kitchen as well and like something you see every day and do not notice, I have not paid attention to these words in a long while.

Wednesday's sermon touched me because the message seemed to be a simple one, but when it was unpacked, I realised how difficult it was to act on. Rev Lo pointed out that although this verse is often used in weddings, Paul was not writing this letter to a couple about to get married. Instead, Paul wrote this letter to the church in Corinth which was disunited, envious, quarrelsome and sexually licentious. As the speaker pointed out, the world had got into the church. And Paul was offering love as the only antidote that could pull the church back to what it should be.

I was struck by Rev Lo's question - can you show love in a love-less world? Can you love someone who hurts you again and again, wrongs you again and again, remembers nothing you have done for him and offers you nothing in return? If it was Christ's love we are talking about, the answer has to be yes. Because love keeps NO record of wrongs. Love ALWAYS trusts, ALWAYS hopes, ALWAYS perseveres. But as Jesus says, it is easier to love someone who loves us. But He calls us to show a different kind of love. To love in a love-less world? It is hard.