Saturday, September 24, 2011
Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Staycation
| The view from our room at Swissotel the Stamford |
| Our take-out dinner |
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Tuesday, November 16, 2010
A Germ of an Idea
Anyway, this lady (who currently feels like a bff) also maintains a website on travelling solo. And I love it! It was comforting to read about other women who feel that same nagging feeling I had yesterday but get off their butt and travel anyway. And there is a whole community of them whom I am longing to connect with. Their travel tales excite me and I feel I really want to do this - travelling solo. It is not an instinct for me. I still prefer to travel with my daughters and /or friends. But I am beginning to think, maybe, just maybe, there is another way. After all, after my first miserable night - which, my new bff assures me is a loneliness felt by every one of these solo travellers :) - I did enjoy my spa holiday at Javana.
So ... I just might ...
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Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Bonding in Bintan
I was back at Bintan on National Day, with old friends. I read somewhere once, that it takes a long time to grow an old friend. And that is how we got here, my friends and I. Over a long time. We all used to teach together in my beloved school, Jurong Institute, which sadly, no longer exists. I am very glad our friendship has survived beyond our workplace :) Hey, we need a name!
It was a brief (but intense) 2D1N holiday as Bintan is only an hour away by ferry. It being National Day, the ferry operator actually distributed little Singapore flags to all the children on board. The sad fact was that none of the children seemed excited about these flags they were given. Even sadder was the fact that WE got really excited when we saw the flags being distributed, but got none :)
I would say we walked along the beach as after all, we were on an island...
but this is where we really wanted to get to... Yes, my friends, you KNOW this is true ;)
So, hey, it was a GREAT holiday. In no order of importance, the highlights of our holiday were
- fantastic, honest conversations
- great massages
- 'silky tresses' from the hair spa :)
- the end of 'teetotaller' status for one :)
- Tamil songs especially "athi thai thai thai (sic)" and ""sentamizhnattu tamizhichiye" :)
- lots of laughter
- reciting the pledge at 8.10pm :)
- pseudo dieting :)
- 'Sex and the City' - oh, ever mine, ever thine, ever ours... hahahaha...
- pigging out at buffet breakfast
- jacuzzi :)
- great conversations - oops, have I said that already? Never mind, it is worth repeating :)
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Friday, July 23, 2010
In London
I feel out of touch with what is going on at office and am quite ready right now for the routine and normalcy of the work week. Makes me wonder - would I chafe if I were to retire? I keep talking fondly of looking forward to retirement, but sometimes, I am not so sure I would enjoy days of nothing but leisure. And there is quite a bit of truth, I have discovered, in Paul's words in 1 Tim 5:13 - talking of the idle women in church he said "And besides they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not" . Hahahaha. This I must not become :)
So what have I been up to in London? There was the baptism of my newest grand-niece, Marisha...
Catching up with family...
Great Quiet Times at Maya's dining table with this lovely reminder of God's creation...
Many cups of cappucino (skinny!), many many slices of Maya's chocolate cake.... Watched a movie (Inception) that messed with my mind in an exciting way... Watched a play (War Horse) that was a technical wizardry where the life sized horse puppets outshone the human actors hands down... .
And celebrated my niece Vidhya's first wedding anniversary at a fantastic Italian restaurant... To think it has been a year already since I last was here for my sister Su's 60th birthday and Vidhya's wedding!
So here I am, going to pack in a bit, getting ready to go home. I pray I will have as enjoyable a flight back as I did coming here. I pray I don't get another kiss-y couple in the seats next to me! Pray all the babies will sleep. Oh yeah - pray for journey mercies :)
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Monday, May 24, 2010
Excited!!!!
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
Back from Melbourne
Friday, November 21, 2008
Globe-trotting Plans
- Feb 2009 - I'm going to Melbourne to settle R in and then to Sydney to attend D's niece's wedding. Yay!
- May 2009 - D and I are going to the US to attend J's graduation. Another Yay! I am also planning to visit my niece in Florida and my brother in Wisconsin. Also hoping to see New York and Washington.
- June 2009 - weekend trip to Bangkok to use up my credit card rewards before they expire in Aug!
- July 2009 - 2 weeks in London to celebrate my sister Su's 60th birthday + my niece Vid is getting married! I get to see Maya and Rohan again too!
- Aug 2009 - a short trip to Siem Reap to see Angkor Wat if J's friend is visiting :)
- Sept 2009 - Hong Kong during the Hari Raya weekend with my BOWALA gang to visit our dear Carol with the express purpose of crashing at her pad to drive her nuts :)
- Oct 2009 - to KL for Vid's Indian wedding ceremony.
- Nov 2009 - my long awaited, much hoped for tour of Israel. My friend Dot and I have put our names on the tour list and we are waiting for the pastor organising it to confirm the tour.
So there you go, my long list of to-dos in 2009. I'm so excited just thinking about these plans. The BIG question is, where oh where am I going to find the money???? Anyone interested in contributing to the kitty??? :)
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Friday, June 27, 2008
A New Kind of Holiday
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Saturday, May 24, 2008
Family Stuff
This year seems to be extended family time. After Maya and Mala, another niece of mine, Veena, is in town with her daughter Vishaka. They have come from India to visit for 2 weeks. Veena felt her daughter did not know the relatives on her maternal side and decided to put that right :)
I saw a sight to behold - my darling daughter who HATED supermarket shopping here and moaned every time we had to do the weekly shopping, actually buying groceries herself. Hahahaha :) So this pic deserves special mention...
But my best memory was the morning of Mothers' Day itself. We stayed in a little hotel beside R's hostel the night before our departure so that we could have some family time and as it would save an early morning commute to the airport. Rubhi disappeared early in the morning saying she had to pass something to her friend. Then she came back while we were having breakfast with a plate of scrambled eggs! Since the hotel only served continental breakfast she decided to make scrambled eggs (my favourite breakfast) for me for Mothers' Day. So she had asked the hotel staff for permission, then gone back to her hostel kitchen and scrambled the eggs and brought it over with a card. It was a really sweet sweet gesture. And I love the way my children still hand-make cards for me.
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Friday, April 18, 2008
My Digital Shadow
So, I learnt a new term today - "digital shadow". Like our "carbon footprint" this is a new term coined to describe the traces we leave in cyberspace. Apparently we leave enough data on cyberspace from all our activities on the Internet for others to collect a great deal of information about us - like what we like to wear, what brands we favour, where we would like to go for a holiday and of course in perverse cases, what our sexual oreintations are :) Every website we have ever visited, every online transaction made, every email sent, every blog updated and commented on, every item googled gives away information about ourselves that can range from the innocuous (so you know I like chocolate, so what?) to the potentially scary (you know the names of my children, where they are and what they are doing) to the damaging (my credit card number is somewhere in cyberspace?)
When I first read the article, I admit I was rather perturbed and it made me pause to think about my online activities. In light of my recent narcissistic activities involving googling myself, I realised with a start that I had willingly put out a great deal of information about myself and my family. So technology has made it possible for me to contact long lost relatives, friends and students, but it has also made it possible for strangers to know me. This is especially true in Facebook where your friends' friends whom you have never met could possibly know about you depending on the kind of privacy levels set on your page and your friend's.
So what does one do then? Retreat into an Amish village and erase all signs of my existence? That's a depressing option. I'm still thinking about it. But meanwhile, for those of you haven't discovered Facebook yet, here is the link to my 50th Birthday party photos on my Facebook...
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=36127&l=a1222&id=607050798
Since I am already casting a digital shadow now, might as well make it a HUGE one while I am still at it :)
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Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Weekend @ Batam
Our package included an hour’s massage at the hotel spa and I must say that I did not enjoy it as much as I had hoped I would. The spa was quite run-down although the ambience was nice. At first I was excited to be ushered into a rooftop hut for the massage but was almost immediately appalled to see a cigarette burn hole in the towel covering the bed. The staff changed the towel immediately when I asked but when I lay down, I discovered that the towel they had changed was damp :( But the masseuse didn’t understand when I said it was damp and kept insisting that the towel was alright. The experience was also marred by the fact that the masseuse wasn’t very experienced and had a cold! I was quite distracted by her constant sniffling and she excused herself twice to go outside and cough. I kept hoping I wasn’t going to catch a cold from her! This was the first massage session when I did not fall asleep, so you can guess the quality of the experience….
The best part of the weekend for me was Sunday morning which we spent at a salon in Nagoya Hill Plaza. Five of us occupied the upstairs of the salon and all had our nails done at the same time. Three of us also had our legs waxed and it was great fun to be just sitting there and chatting while the girls did our nails. My sisters-in-law and I have never done this kind of thing together before. Usually we go out for a meal, but somehow this seemed like a more fun activity for me than eating together. It’s a pity manicures are so expensive in Singapore or else I would suggest doing this more often. We talked about coming out to Batam again just on a day trip, but I didn’t really like the quality of the work done on my nails to come here on a regular basis. The Batam girls were no match for my monthly routine at Serenity Cove and my massage at Spa Esprit. I know it costs me 4 times more in Singapore but it is a luxury treat I give myself and going all the way to Batam for a less satisfactory experience doesn’t appeal to me. I guess I will go just for the company and for the chance to sit and talk with my sisters-in-law, but not for my regular de-stress session. That has to be my fave places in Holland Village still.
All in, it was a fun experience and I am really glad we had this break together. I wish we had done less shopping and more talking or playing games. I still feel that although we are all family and have known each other for more than 20 years, there is still a level of closeness missing that I feel with my friends. Only 3 of us are more open in talking to each other and I wish there had been an opportunity in this trip for all of us to have gotten to know each other better. Or maybe I was expecting too much too soon?
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Friday, June 08, 2007
Our Bali Holiday
We are back from Bali! We spent a wonderful 5 days, living in a villa. Really great time for me because I didn't have to do a thing! We had a house-boy, a cook and a driver at our beck & call. Every morning Dewa - the house-boy (well, he is actually a grown man:) - would ask us what we wanted to eat for the day and then he and the cook, Nyoman would go and buy the ingredients and cook the food. The meals were delicious and served right at the time we asked for it. We also had a gem of a driver, Wayan, to whom we would give the day's itinerary and then he made sure we saw all that we wanted to see.
Here's what we did in Bali:
Day 1: Mon 4 Jun
- Mad day of driving around. We went to the artisan villages of Celuk (silver craft), Mas (wood carving) and Batuan where we visited a beautiful art gallery that was set up in an actual Balinese house compound.
- We also drove up to a beautiful scenic place called Kintamani from which we had spectacular views of an active volcano, Gunung Batur and the lake beside it, Lake Batur. The only thing that marred this experience was the lousy and expensive lunch we ate at the restaurant at the top of Kintamani. The restaurant had a lovely view but we didn't realise how esxorbitant the cost of the buffet was because we had not mastered the art of currency conversion yet. We ended up paying about S$90.00 for a buffet lunch that was no way even near the delicious meals our villa cooks served us. We also learnt to our horror that the tax in Bali was 21%. Yikes! Here are pics from Kintamani.
- We also went to Tampaksiring to view an old temple built around a spring that the Balinese believe has healing powers. It is called Thirtha Empul and when we visited there were some prayers going on. People filled bottles with the holy water and took it back with them. The priest also sprinkled the water on those who were worshipping.In all the temples we went to, we were asked to tie a yellow sash around our waists & women in shorts (like me) had to wear a sarong that was provided by the temple.
- We then went to another temple called Goa Gajah (the Elephant Cave) which was built in the 11th century. This temple too was built around a spring and they had erected 6 statues from which the spring water flowed, naming the statues after rivers in India
- By now, of course, we were exhausted and the drive back to the villa in the evening was a quiet one with all of us sleeping in the car. :)
Day 2: Tues 5 Jun
- We spent the morning just enjoying the villa and planned a half day tour today to recover from yesterday.
- Then tragedy struck. My camera battery went flat! I had charged the battery before we left and assumed that it would last 4 days and hadn't brought the charger with me. So there we were, in the middle of our holiday, with no camera. Wayan then took us to Kuta to look for a digital photo shop that could help and I ended up paying S$60 for a multi-card charger and plug which looked like it would have cost S$4 in Mustapha as well as a disposable camera since the battery would take a few hours to charge :( Oh well.
- In the afternoon, we went to Ubud which is a small artists' village & then to Uluwatu which is a beautiful temple set on top of a cliff. We had left Ubud too late so Wayan really raced to get us to Uluwatu before sunset. We made it in time but it was a cloudy evening and the sunset wasn't spectacular but we had a good time. We watched the famous Kecak dance which was really a dance drama based on the story of Ramayana. No photos sorry - I have to see how the disposable camera photos turn out.
- Another morning spent relaxing at the villa before going to Mengwi to look at Taman Ayun, which was the royal temple. Tourists are not allowed into the temple but the temple grounds are beautiful. The whole temple is surrounded by a lotus pond.
- From Mengwi we went back to the villa for a rest as by this time I had developed a sore throat :( Nevertheless, we drove out first to Kuta Beach and then to Tanah Lot, which is another temple set by the sea. It was indeed a beautiful location but unfortunately my camera battery died again, and I could not take pictures. I was really disappointed as this was a picturesque place and one of the places I had been really keen to see.
- This was our last day in Bali. Wayan drove us to a nearby beach but it started to rain so we had to come back to the villa. We spent the rest of the morning at the pool and reading on the 'bale' until it was time to say goodbye to the lovely staff and the villa.
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